Why do I keep getting a newsletter subscribe pop-up on your site?

I am already a subscribed to your newsletter, but I keep getting a pop-up asking me to subscribe. This ‘nagging’ action is a fairly recent problem. This is beginning to annoy me and I would appreciate knowing how to stop this from occurring.

First, thanks for subscribing, I appreciate it.

Second, I'm sorry that my site is annoying you. It's not supposed to.

The problem is cookies.


The fact that you're subscribed actually has nothing to do with whether or not you see that popup. The website actually doesn't know who you are, and certainly doesn't know whether or not you're already subscribed to the newsletter.

However that popup is supposed to be shown exactly once, and then not again for 6 months. (The six months may change, but you get the idea, it's supposed to be "a long time".)

It does so by instructing your web browser to put a cookie on your machine so that it knows "oh, you've seen this already, I don't need to bug you".

So why is it bugging you anyway?

There are several possibilities:

  • You have cookies disabled. Without cookies, I have no way to keep track of the fact that you've seen the popup before.

  • Your internet security software is blocking cookies. Same problem: without cookies, I don't know not to bug you. If you can, add an exception for both "ask-leo.com" and "aweber.com". AWeber is my newsletter email provider.

  • You're regularly clearing your cookies - either manually or through some automated process. This causes my site to "forget" that you'd visited before.

  • You're using a different browser on each visit. OK, probably not each visit, but since each browser keeps it's own list of cookies, the first time you visit the site in, say, Internet Explorer, you'll still see the pop-up once even though you've visited before using FireFox.

  • You're using a different machine. Same issue as the previous point - cookies are kept separately on each machine.

If none of those work, you can also block Javascript on my site, and you'll not see the popup. My recommended approach is to use the NoScript plugin to FireFox to enable and disable Javascript selectively on for sites that you do and don't trust.

Or for sites that annoy you.

Finally, I agree: this shouldn't be your problem. I've put in a request that the popup not be displayed at all to people with cookies disabled. That won't solve all the scenarios above, but perhaps the most common.

Comments

  1. Is there any way to protect cookies from selected sites from being cleaned along with a general clearing of cookies?

  2. Why not use some other way to remember me that does not use cookies. I always erase all of them when I sign off.

    Even though a few people have problems (for which I do apologize), cookies are by far the most reliable to do this. In fact, it’s exactly the kind of thing the cookies were meant for.

    - Leo
    04-Mar-2009
  3. Why does your popup resemble ask Bob Rankin, exactly. That site also has a subscriber pop up. It also does not know I subscribed. My cookies are enabled, Netzero hates disabled cookies.

    Bob and I happen to use the same email service. (Though “exact” is a bit strong – the words and colors are quite different.)

    - Leo
    04-Mar-2009
  4. Dave Markley says:

    Just a thought: Of course this is an annoying pop-up, but come on people – for all Leo does for all of us is it that much trouble to just click the little “X” to turn it off. Leo gives us a wealth of information each and every week and asks nothing in return. I hate pop-ups as much as anyone, but it is the only pop-up we get in his newsletters, (unlike many sites), and Leo does not bombard us with ads, etc. Leo must get many comments and questions about this pop-up for him to even address it, so wouldn’t we all be better off if the space he had to use (and time) to address this issue was used for a more important issue? We should all be grateful for all Leo does for us and just learn to live with it. Thanks again Leo!

  5. Charlie Griffith says:

    Leo…that pop up mentioned above is so easily gotten rid of by clicking on that “x” that I evaded my guilty feeling that I’d somehow let my subscription lapse to your superb newsletter. I’d put up with a lot more than that to continue receiving this N/L.
    I’d like to hear a suggestion for Bob Rocha’s question about the selection of cookies to retain. (Firefox, if set, obligingly eliminates all cookies at shutdown.)

  6. Calvin Kyle Bobbitt says:

    You could give your visitors the option of logging in to your website with their email address. And then you could check that addy with the list of your subscribers. As long as they are logged in they shouldn’t see the popup.

    For me to “remember” that you’re logged in requires cookies. So if the existing cookie approach doesn’t work because cookies are getting erased, neither will the login approach. Sorry.

    - Leo
    15-Jul-2009

  7. Roy Flint says:

    Hi Leo, I don’t know if this will work or not. I use Firefox, and delete when closing all the time. However I do read my email in a browser. Could the links within the newsletter ‘pre-set’ the cookie maybe? Then when the site is entered, the cookie will be there having been planted by the link.?? Or use some sort of re-direction page on your site that places the cookie?? I’m just thinking is there an alternate way to set the cookie in each time from the newsletter?

    In short, yes. Kinda. This is the direction I’m investigating. The problem is that it doesn’t resolve the issue for newsletter subscribers who visit the site via paths other than the newsletter. But it could be an improvement, yes.

    - Leo
    15-Jul-2009

  8. It does to me in Opera but not in Firefox